Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Good morning to all. As some of you already know, Jenny has been in Mobile Infirmary since 5/25/07. We went to have a CT scan on that same day, due to complications that she was having in her bowels. She was admitted on that same day, because we have several new tumors that have become very aggressive and one in particular is pushing very hard against her large intestines, making no way for her to move her bowels. She is now in a controlled state of pain management and as of today, there has been no movement. Dr. Beeker has suggested to begin a strategic attack on the one tumor that is blocking the bowels, in order to relieve what would bring almost instant comfort to the situation. She would still have sporadic discomfort, because of the bowels spasms that would follow for a few days, but not equivalent to what she is undergoing now. Many of you have asked, "if this goal is not accomplished, what will happen?" The only way that I can answer that in the natural, is that the bowels could possibly leak and cause peritonitis. Dr. Thompson would take the opportunity to perform a colostomy before it would get that grave, i am certain. I want to thank everyone for the Love we receive from you in whatever package offered, whether it is to minister to our children, clean the house, cut the grass, get the mail, etc... With everything happening so suddenly, many of you helped with those things in the last few weeks and we are so grateful, you have truly deaconed me and my family. In the passing days and nights in the suite of room 4652 with a view, Jenny and I started forming a plan to put people in place to delegate some of the obvious needs and to give Meredith and Jacob some obvious needs as well, normalcy being one of them. My brother and sister-in-law, (Ken and Katrina Busby) have agreed to take a lot of calls for me, in order to give me time with Jennifer and the kids. Their phone # is 666-4780 or 767-4451. Please understand that my cell phone requires a major portion of my business day for what I do as a rep. for Barnett Millworks, and the influx of calls with Jenny in the hospital is compounded. PLEASE know my heart, you are simply Loving on us by staying in touch and knowing how to pray for us. Dorathy, Jennifer's sister will be here on Wednesday the 6th, and will stay here until the 17th with the children and minister to them. During these few days they will be going to VBS. Connie Purtilo will be flying in on the 18th to shake hands with Dorothy as she leaves for a week to New York and Connie will stay with the children until no longer necessary.
God has been faithful in giving us our needs, our large family of friends is certainly one of the most gratifying needs we have and we cherish that. I simply do not know how people go through life or the uncertainties of life without someone to hold your arms up. That being said, "you are true friends," and I ask our Lord to Bless you for being a blessing.
Jenny is asking for everyone to stay positive and to remember the story of Elijah instructing Elisha, when they were surrounded by the enemy, Elisha asked that he could see what Elijah could see beyond the enemy. With that request, the Lord illuminated the hillside with God's angelic host which revealed peace now shared between two brothers. Our faith is many times hindered by approaching enemy's, mine included; and this tumorous enemy is one that strikes hard. We believe God's word that, dying is a part of living and yet however that day may come for either of us, we will depart with our sword in our hand, ON THE BATTLEFIELD. Please continue to pray with us for healing, and this is the scripture the Lord reveals to us often, John 9:1-3. Obviously this man had suffered a trial for a long time which the local psychologist did not have the slant on, Jesus now reveals the reason and the revelation, more importantly the glorification on the one who created us all. When something is broke or not working properly, you have to bring it back to the manufacturer. We so understand that God uses doctors and medicine and believe me they are a blessing to us, but our hope is sealed in what our Lord will be glorified in doing in His perfect time. I Love you all and remember to take as many opportunities to serve your beloved today, the benefits are great!

In Christ,

Kevin & Jennifer

6 comments:

athprog said...

Jennifer & Kevin,

You guys inspire me!

You total love and devotion to each other, is what all couples should aspire to have. Your love for the Lord leave me in amazement!!! Eric and I love you guys, and want you to know that we are in total prayer for your family. I also want you to know that we will help you in anyway possible. I I can cook (no matter what Eric says, Clean, or keep the kids any night you need. I am also off every Friday and I would love to take them to the breakfast with us at Chick-Fil-A and then to the fountains. We go every Friday, and Taylor Brooke would love the company. I know this is a long post, but I did not want to call and bug you guys.

Jennifer you are truly an inspiration to me, and I will continue to pray for Gods total healing.

Love,
Eric, Kimi, and Taylor Brooke Helms

Unknown said...

Kevin & Jennifer, your family is in our prayers, and I feel so blessed to have gotten to know you better over the last few weeks in being in your Sunday School class. I think about you guys often and lift you to the LORD each time. Your life is a living testimony to God's awesome power, strength and love for all of us, and our family will continue to pray for you. Please let us know if there's anything we can do or that you need. It would be our joy to serve you.
Wyatt, Daisy & Maggie

mindy bowman said...

Kevin and Jennifer,

I just wanted to let you know we are praying for healing and God's comfort and peace. I cannot find the words to say how you have inspired me and been a faithful witness for the Lord not just to me but to many others. I do not know you well but have watched with wonder and amazement from afar and have been so amazed and inspired by your faith in our Lord. As I go through my days I find myself often thinking of you and I stop and say a prayer for you. Know that you are on my mind and in my prayers. Troy and I will continue to pray for healing. Nothing is impossible for our God.

laura lambert said...

Kevin & Jen,
We love ya'll! God is your strength and your refuge. Know that my family has been praying for you and yours. I know that God can do any miracle that furthers His kingdom and healing you would further His kingdom greatly. You are a treasure. I am blessed by being in your life. If you need anything add us to your list, I work half days on Tue. & Thurs. You can reach me at 626-1220. When we are weak He is strong. Your body may be weak, but your heart is strong with the melody of Christ.
Love,
The Lamberts

Inside our hands, outside our hearts said...

I just happen to fall into your blog .. but I send my prayers and best wishes for health.

remember that belief and faith is more powerful than anything known to man.

Softest love,
T

Casey Frawley, RN, CBN said...

Jen,
Just wanted you to know that I love you, and that I think of you often. What an amazing daughter you have...you have done a wonderful job raising her! I won't keep you because I know you're tired, I just wanted you to know that I'm here and you are in my prayers. Always know, you are my inspiration! Casey