Jennifer finished her battle with cancer last night, September 25th around 9:05 pm. Our family appreciates all your thoughts and prayers. In leu of flowers, please send memorial donations for the annual giving fund, in memory of Jennifer Busby to Bay Shore Christian School. The address is 23050 U.S. Hwy 98. Fairhope, Al. 36532. The phone number for the school is 251-929-0011.
The arrangements for the Memorial Service will be Saturday September 29th at 12:00 pm from Faith Family Fellowship in Spanish Fort, next to West Minster village on Hwy 31. Graveside services will follow with a police escort to Mobile Memorial Gardens. Our family would like to invite everyone back to Faith Family Fellowship for a fellowship reception following the graveside service.
Merideth and Jacob are doing wonderful, and have a peace that passes all understanding.
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Friday, September 21, 2007
Hey Everyone,
This week has had some fun times, but also some very stressful times. Mom has gone down hill very rapidly since Aunt Connie and Uncle Gary came,(NOT THAT THEY HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT)NO REALLY I MEAN IT! and the nurse feels that the time for Mom to go to her eternal home is very near.
I had a good talk with mom a couple nights ago, and got to tell her what I needed to, so now I have a real peace about her leaving. Jacob understands on his level, and we know he will be OK.
This morning Jacob came in the room yelling,"MOMMA, MOMMA CAN JOHN SPEND THE NIGHT TONIGHT," so my mom kind of groaned then Jacob said , " WAS THAT A YES?" Today when my dad told me that Mrs. Justiss, who is a dear friend of ours, and was the best teacher I've ever had, is going to be our nanny, I was so excited.
She is a wonderful person, and will be a tremendous help in our family, I know that for a fact. I do not say this just because she is fun, but because she has helped me through so many times. When I was in her class I will never forget the way she was like a second mother who adopted me and the rest of the class into her family.
Things are coming together in our family very quickly. I saw mom praying and I heard her ask God to take her home, she is ready , and if she is ready I'm ready ,I don't want her to be in pain and suffer. Please do not think I want her to die , because if I could change it I would in a heartbeat, but I hate seeing her this way and I want her to be in complete PEACE.
I believe she has done a fantastic job at doing all she can in her life. She has run her race and has crossed the finish line successfully. The important thing to remember is that she never gave up, which is the perfect way to live a life. We love you all and thank you so much for all the prayers.
LOVE,
MERIDETH
This week has had some fun times, but also some very stressful times. Mom has gone down hill very rapidly since Aunt Connie and Uncle Gary came,(NOT THAT THEY HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT)NO REALLY I MEAN IT! and the nurse feels that the time for Mom to go to her eternal home is very near.
I had a good talk with mom a couple nights ago, and got to tell her what I needed to, so now I have a real peace about her leaving. Jacob understands on his level, and we know he will be OK.
This morning Jacob came in the room yelling,"MOMMA, MOMMA CAN JOHN SPEND THE NIGHT TONIGHT," so my mom kind of groaned then Jacob said , " WAS THAT A YES?" Today when my dad told me that Mrs. Justiss, who is a dear friend of ours, and was the best teacher I've ever had, is going to be our nanny, I was so excited.
She is a wonderful person, and will be a tremendous help in our family, I know that for a fact. I do not say this just because she is fun, but because she has helped me through so many times. When I was in her class I will never forget the way she was like a second mother who adopted me and the rest of the class into her family.
Things are coming together in our family very quickly. I saw mom praying and I heard her ask God to take her home, she is ready , and if she is ready I'm ready ,I don't want her to be in pain and suffer. Please do not think I want her to die , because if I could change it I would in a heartbeat, but I hate seeing her this way and I want her to be in complete PEACE.
I believe she has done a fantastic job at doing all she can in her life. She has run her race and has crossed the finish line successfully. The important thing to remember is that she never gave up, which is the perfect way to live a life. We love you all and thank you so much for all the prayers.
LOVE,
MERIDETH
Friday, August 31, 2007
Good Morning Everyone,
I truley mean it has been a good morning. Morninings are probably the hardest for me. I had
a good nights sleep two nights in a row. I have eaten well this week and been able to juice and
get good nutrients. I thank you all so much for understanding and supporting us. I know that last blog seemed like a list of things not to do. Thank you all for looking into our hearts to see that it really was requested with love. I want to say a very special thanks to Heather Love. She is the PE teacher @ BAy Shore and has coordinated meals for our family through the moms at Bay Shore. Heather has the biggest heart and with all she carries on her plate like many of you
she still finds time to minister to us. We have also been blessed to have meals provided indefinately on Wed. and Fridays . So between Bayshore bringing meals on Tues and Thursdays and the other taking care of , we are set. Connie really appreciates it too, since she would be the one cooking all the time.
We have no big plans for Labor Day a real treat would be to feel great and enjoy the family time. We hope you all have a wonderful , safe weekend.
I am out of news for now and alittlw groggy so I will sign off for now. Love Jen
I truley mean it has been a good morning. Morninings are probably the hardest for me. I had
a good nights sleep two nights in a row. I have eaten well this week and been able to juice and
get good nutrients. I thank you all so much for understanding and supporting us. I know that last blog seemed like a list of things not to do. Thank you all for looking into our hearts to see that it really was requested with love. I want to say a very special thanks to Heather Love. She is the PE teacher @ BAy Shore and has coordinated meals for our family through the moms at Bay Shore. Heather has the biggest heart and with all she carries on her plate like many of you
she still finds time to minister to us. We have also been blessed to have meals provided indefinately on Wed. and Fridays . So between Bayshore bringing meals on Tues and Thursdays and the other taking care of , we are set. Connie really appreciates it too, since she would be the one cooking all the time.
We have no big plans for Labor Day a real treat would be to feel great and enjoy the family time. We hope you all have a wonderful , safe weekend.
I am out of news for now and alittlw groggy so I will sign off for now. Love Jen
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
August 29,2007
Hello, We hope everyone is well? Kevin's surgery went wonderful an he starts rehab Sept 5th. Connie (from) Iowa is doing well ans been an amazing help. Dot is doing well.
It 's been such a blessing for us to spend that time together.
I had fluid drained last week ,it has returned. The process is grueling and tiring and to do it
weekly is more than my body can do. We are trusting the Lord with what he will do to supply next.
So many have asked what they can do and We have given much thought to how efficiently we can run the home now that school is in.
One way is,
Thank you for your cards and visits. We are making a request that after the hours of 3:00 pm we have no company,or drop in company. Those are such busy hours and we need those hours for dinner,prep for the next day,home work,and family.
Second: Please don't include sweets in meals cakes,cookies,pies. We do not eat alot of that stuff and only on special occasions, and it goes to waste. I don't eat sugar as a rule and my hubby has done a great job dropping the weight so I want to encourage that. The children do better with out the sweets.
We eat fruit like cantaloupe, bananas, binge cherries, strawberries,grapes, Fuji apples, and
try to keep sweets monitored.
Please don't flog me, I am not saying we do this right all the time but we try.
Third , I don't rile out of bed or awake until about 9-10am so if those who do not need an asap call back please don't call before then.
We thank you all for understanding this situation is changing daily and our needs change.
Many of you have asked if we have needs lets you know. Probably a better way to work this thing may be if God lays a need or something on your heart then give us a call and we will go from there. This will alleviate frustrations on your part of not being asked to help somewhere,
it will help us with the appearance of being martyrs and not needing any help.
Several have expressed a desire to come pray with or for me . I am so blessed to have friends that are ready to lower me and my family through the roof .Countless people have been faithfully petitioning the throne of God from the sanctuary of their hearts. We ask that you continue as we need our home to stay as calm and fluid as possible specifically when evry moment counts.
We love you all . We hope these are as helpful to you as they will be to us. Jen
Hello, We hope everyone is well? Kevin's surgery went wonderful an he starts rehab Sept 5th. Connie (from) Iowa is doing well ans been an amazing help. Dot is doing well.
It 's been such a blessing for us to spend that time together.
I had fluid drained last week ,it has returned. The process is grueling and tiring and to do it
weekly is more than my body can do. We are trusting the Lord with what he will do to supply next.
So many have asked what they can do and We have given much thought to how efficiently we can run the home now that school is in.
One way is,
Thank you for your cards and visits. We are making a request that after the hours of 3:00 pm we have no company,or drop in company. Those are such busy hours and we need those hours for dinner,prep for the next day,home work,and family.
Second: Please don't include sweets in meals cakes,cookies,pies. We do not eat alot of that stuff and only on special occasions, and it goes to waste. I don't eat sugar as a rule and my hubby has done a great job dropping the weight so I want to encourage that. The children do better with out the sweets.
We eat fruit like cantaloupe, bananas, binge cherries, strawberries,grapes, Fuji apples, and
try to keep sweets monitored.
Please don't flog me, I am not saying we do this right all the time but we try.
Third , I don't rile out of bed or awake until about 9-10am so if those who do not need an asap call back please don't call before then.
We thank you all for understanding this situation is changing daily and our needs change.
Many of you have asked if we have needs lets you know. Probably a better way to work this thing may be if God lays a need or something on your heart then give us a call and we will go from there. This will alleviate frustrations on your part of not being asked to help somewhere,
it will help us with the appearance of being martyrs and not needing any help.
Several have expressed a desire to come pray with or for me . I am so blessed to have friends that are ready to lower me and my family through the roof .Countless people have been faithfully petitioning the throne of God from the sanctuary of their hearts. We ask that you continue as we need our home to stay as calm and fluid as possible specifically when evry moment counts.
We love you all . We hope these are as helpful to you as they will be to us. Jen
Friday, July 27, 2007
Hi Everyone!
Kevin has been wonderful to keep everyone posted, and I want to thank you all so much foryour patience waiting on an update. So many of you have prayed with us and sent cards and called. Many have asked if they can help with meals ect. A special thanks to Charlie Staffords sunday school class for a week of meals. My crew doesn't eat alot so three meals were plenty with left overs our fridge was running over. There always seems to be someone bringing a meal at the right time. I must offer my apololgy to all those who have called and I have yet to call back. When I have excess energy I am not up to chatting lately. I am really focusing on Kevin and the kids and being as normal as possible. We are all adopting to the new normal. Thank you also to our Sunday School class Kevin has the honor to lead for understanding our absence the last few weeks . Now that the summer time activities are calming down he is looking very much forward to resuming with everyone in the coming weeks. He will probably be attending the classes by himself for the most part,only because of the energy it takes to due both church and Sunday School. You all have been wonderful.
The Summer has been packed with trips and family visits and birthday parties. JAcob turned 7years old and Merideth turned 11. The children are excited about getting back to school. We love their school Bay Shore Christian. The school has become very centering for the children with friends and faculty support. It is a prayer of ours that Bay Shore will continue through High School.
I have not been able to get out alot due to the heat and nausea. We do make the most of our days with, summer reading, family games,movies,and at night when it's cool we all will go get in the hot tub. My sister Lynn who lives in Bangor, MAine visited with her fiance and her children in June. My brother will be coming in Tuesday July 31 to visit for the week. We will make and attempt to spend that week at the beach if I am up to it. We take everyday one day at a time. Dot my sis and kindred heart has been here this week and will be here off and on taking care of me and the kids and Kevin. Ken and Katrina (my brother and sister-in-law )have been wonderful to helpwith the kids and meals and any where we need a helping hand. Kevin is haveing surgery on his shoulder on August 9. This will be out patient ,but will incapacitate him for a few weeks. We are hoping my Aunt can come during this time for a week or so while Dot has to head back to Cleveland for some Football Shindigs with her hubby. So as you can tell it is taking a village to pull all this off. Isn't it a wonderful peace that Gods worked out these details even if we don't know what they are yet.
I will share with you that we have recently begun a book called Heaven for kids. It is what we have adopted in the evening as a family time to read through this book that extensively answers questions the children have on heaven. Kevin and I are reading the adult version and as and adult and a christian it has brought alot of encouragement and peace to our home on questions about heaven with the scripture to back up.
So whats up with me? The palative chemo therapy is not strong enough to irraticate the cancer. The acytis (fluid) build up is costant. It is slow but evident. I have a wheel chair to assist me when I get out of the house for any length of time. The Coastal Hospice has been involved for about three weeks now and they have been wonderful. Please ,I ask all of you who read this not to see this use of hospice not as a sign of surrender but more of an assistant. To the children we just call it nurse care that makes all our lives alittle easier. The last thing we want is for someone to make a comment to the children about hospice and the negative thoughts that brings. It has been our experience that it is usually not an adult that says something to the children but a child that has over heard an adult conversation and repeated it to them. So if those who have children could guard what is said in front of the children we would greatly appreciate it.
Kevin and I have one foot in the super natural asking the Lord for healing and one foot in the real world tending to the details and preparation of our lives and children, should the Lord in his Soverien plan choose to take me home to heaven. I would be less than honest if I didn't say that this summer has been difficult. Probably one of the hardest parts is not knowing what each day holds. HAving the mind of a young 35 year old and my body just won't cooperate. Most of my Christian life I have been urged to live one day at a time, but I can say Kevin and I both as well as the whole family has walkded there. So there is the low down. I hope that this info can ease just a few of the many questions and concerns.
We are so blessed to have you all our Bay Shore Family,our FFF family, our Cottagehill, and North Mobile family, and all our friends. My Husbands company has been wonderfully supportive as he has needed time to help with me. With all that has been said today I want to end letting you know we give God all the glory for his ever faithful provision and love. WE love you all!!!Kevin and I will be lifting you all up as the Lord brings you to mind and also as you prepare your own families for the comeing school year. God bless!!!
Monday, June 11, 2007
Jenny's Home
Hello, from the Busby's. Just an update to let everyone know that Jenny is home as of Friday, the 8th. We are so grateful for your continued prayers and the Love we feel is off the scale. The children and I are so happy to have her home, even though she is still very sick, her presence and smile brings sunshine to us all. The children will be in VBS all next week, and CHBC has sent meals for the week this week, therefore those two issues are taken care of for those inquiring on needs, if that helps those of you in co-ordinating helps.
She will have radiation on Monday and Tuesday, and then begin chemotherapy on Thursday the 14th. The focus of radiation has been on the large mass that was blocking the bowels, leaving the other masses to be aggressive, thus the chemo will begin on Thursday.
We just wanted to communicate to our loved ones and fill in the gray, and more importantly tell you we love you all. Thank you for continuing to knock at heavens door in our behalf. Until next blog, hugs and kisses; the Busby's...
In Christ,
Kevin and Jennifer
She will have radiation on Monday and Tuesday, and then begin chemotherapy on Thursday the 14th. The focus of radiation has been on the large mass that was blocking the bowels, leaving the other masses to be aggressive, thus the chemo will begin on Thursday.
We just wanted to communicate to our loved ones and fill in the gray, and more importantly tell you we love you all. Thank you for continuing to knock at heavens door in our behalf. Until next blog, hugs and kisses; the Busby's...
In Christ,
Kevin and Jennifer
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
Hallelujah
Good morning soldiers of prayer!! In all my life, I never thought I would find myself praising the Lord over a bowel movement; much less, bragging about it over the internet. Yes, Jennifer was relieved in the night three times. We agree that God hears the prayers of His people, and I want to thank you for bowing your heart and your knee in this matter. I don't have much time to blog this morning, I have to see several clients today and I need to get underway. Just know that we are rejoicing together and please keep on praying for the miracle and His will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. She has been told that she may come home after having a bowel movement, but she has until Friday to complete her radiation, therefore she may choose to stay there until then, otherwise we would have to make the journey from Loxley to Mobile each day for treatment. I Love you all very much and we feel your Love as well.
In Christ,
Kevin and Jennifer
In Christ,
Kevin and Jennifer
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
Good morning to all. As some of you already know, Jenny has been in Mobile Infirmary since 5/25/07. We went to have a CT scan on that same day, due to complications that she was having in her bowels. She was admitted on that same day, because we have several new tumors that have become very aggressive and one in particular is pushing very hard against her large intestines, making no way for her to move her bowels. She is now in a controlled state of pain management and as of today, there has been no movement. Dr. Beeker has suggested to begin a strategic attack on the one tumor that is blocking the bowels, in order to relieve what would bring almost instant comfort to the situation. She would still have sporadic discomfort, because of the bowels spasms that would follow for a few days, but not equivalent to what she is undergoing now. Many of you have asked, "if this goal is not accomplished, what will happen?" The only way that I can answer that in the natural, is that the bowels could possibly leak and cause peritonitis. Dr. Thompson would take the opportunity to perform a colostomy before it would get that grave, i am certain. I want to thank everyone for the Love we receive from you in whatever package offered, whether it is to minister to our children, clean the house, cut the grass, get the mail, etc... With everything happening so suddenly, many of you helped with those things in the last few weeks and we are so grateful, you have truly deaconed me and my family. In the passing days and nights in the suite of room 4652 with a view, Jenny and I started forming a plan to put people in place to delegate some of the obvious needs and to give Meredith and Jacob some obvious needs as well, normalcy being one of them. My brother and sister-in-law, (Ken and Katrina Busby) have agreed to take a lot of calls for me, in order to give me time with Jennifer and the kids. Their phone # is 666-4780 or 767-4451. Please understand that my cell phone requires a major portion of my business day for what I do as a rep. for Barnett Millworks, and the influx of calls with Jenny in the hospital is compounded. PLEASE know my heart, you are simply Loving on us by staying in touch and knowing how to pray for us. Dorathy, Jennifer's sister will be here on Wednesday the 6th, and will stay here until the 17th with the children and minister to them. During these few days they will be going to VBS. Connie Purtilo will be flying in on the 18th to shake hands with Dorothy as she leaves for a week to New York and Connie will stay with the children until no longer necessary.
God has been faithful in giving us our needs, our large family of friends is certainly one of the most gratifying needs we have and we cherish that. I simply do not know how people go through life or the uncertainties of life without someone to hold your arms up. That being said, "you are true friends," and I ask our Lord to Bless you for being a blessing.
Jenny is asking for everyone to stay positive and to remember the story of Elijah instructing Elisha, when they were surrounded by the enemy, Elisha asked that he could see what Elijah could see beyond the enemy. With that request, the Lord illuminated the hillside with God's angelic host which revealed peace now shared between two brothers. Our faith is many times hindered by approaching enemy's, mine included; and this tumorous enemy is one that strikes hard. We believe God's word that, dying is a part of living and yet however that day may come for either of us, we will depart with our sword in our hand, ON THE BATTLEFIELD. Please continue to pray with us for healing, and this is the scripture the Lord reveals to us often, John 9:1-3. Obviously this man had suffered a trial for a long time which the local psychologist did not have the slant on, Jesus now reveals the reason and the revelation, more importantly the glorification on the one who created us all. When something is broke or not working properly, you have to bring it back to the manufacturer. We so understand that God uses doctors and medicine and believe me they are a blessing to us, but our hope is sealed in what our Lord will be glorified in doing in His perfect time. I Love you all and remember to take as many opportunities to serve your beloved today, the benefits are great!
In Christ,
Kevin & Jennifer
God has been faithful in giving us our needs, our large family of friends is certainly one of the most gratifying needs we have and we cherish that. I simply do not know how people go through life or the uncertainties of life without someone to hold your arms up. That being said, "you are true friends," and I ask our Lord to Bless you for being a blessing.
Jenny is asking for everyone to stay positive and to remember the story of Elijah instructing Elisha, when they were surrounded by the enemy, Elisha asked that he could see what Elijah could see beyond the enemy. With that request, the Lord illuminated the hillside with God's angelic host which revealed peace now shared between two brothers. Our faith is many times hindered by approaching enemy's, mine included; and this tumorous enemy is one that strikes hard. We believe God's word that, dying is a part of living and yet however that day may come for either of us, we will depart with our sword in our hand, ON THE BATTLEFIELD. Please continue to pray with us for healing, and this is the scripture the Lord reveals to us often, John 9:1-3. Obviously this man had suffered a trial for a long time which the local psychologist did not have the slant on, Jesus now reveals the reason and the revelation, more importantly the glorification on the one who created us all. When something is broke or not working properly, you have to bring it back to the manufacturer. We so understand that God uses doctors and medicine and believe me they are a blessing to us, but our hope is sealed in what our Lord will be glorified in doing in His perfect time. I Love you all and remember to take as many opportunities to serve your beloved today, the benefits are great!
In Christ,
Kevin & Jennifer
Thursday, May 3, 2007
Hi everyone!!!
Sorry it's been so long. I wanted to say the prayers and support have been amazing. Today is May 3 and I cant beive its beeen a month since surgery. I am still moving pretty slow. However the progress from last week to this week has been great. I am staying up longer periods during
the day. I am off all but one of my pain meds. I am still on a pain patch which has been a real help. It is good to have my thoughts clearing and feeling better all those narcotics just fuzzy my brain. I have not talked on the phone much , thank you all for understanding. Kevin is feeling better. He seems to do better mentally and sleep better when I am doing better. We are so excited about being able to be apart of a new Sunday school class starting this Sunday at our Church Faith FAmiliy Fellowship.
As if haveing such a successfull surgey wasn't enough we just feel like the Lord is answering
some long time prayers and petitions restoring those years the locust had eaten. Several of you have asked how you can help and felt kind of helpless,but I can tell you that I am at the place that if anyone would like to come clean my bathrooms or floors I would gladly except the help. Connie has been gone a week now and the kids and Kevin have done a great job holding it together ,but us moms know that sometimes its just needs an extra good mom scrub. I am not picky once or twice a week would be plenty. Joell palmer has been a sweety to help coordinate this effort at least until I am really on my feet again so those of you that know her may want to contact her. The childrens school Bay shore Christian has ministered to us through meals and will be doing so through May 23. Boy they have all hit a home run for us. I am not eating great yet and the smell of food is not the most appealing so my family has so appreciated their unique labor of love!!! We have been talking with our Med Onco. about te next step so as soon as we know something we will let you know. I can tell you taht Friday night MAy 4 I have been asked to speak at the Relay for Life for the American Cancer Society in Daphne . The kick off is a 6:00 Pm @ Daphne Middle School .So any that would like to come out to support this cause we would love to see you! Well I have rattled enough thank you all for you love, your cards, calls, prayers and encouragements. The picture I added was of my Honey , Kevin the kids and Gary fishing one day while I was recouping. So when you want to know how the kids are . I think their doing great!!!! Godbless JEn
Monday, April 16, 2007
Hello,
Today is Monday April 16th. I am starting to regain some of my balance and memory. I am
so blessed to have you all . Thank those of you that have helped Connie and Gary find thier way along. The children are splendid and I don't think they have missed a beat. Easter the children came to see me in the hospital and So many pictures have been taken while I have been recouping I am brought to tears at how bless we all have been. I woke up today and the pain and swelling was down significantly. I know Kevin have up dated the blog regarding the success of my surgery. He has been a champ. To all you men in his life that have stood beside him and
been there for him godbless you! We are praying for the next step. That God would do what he is going to do to irradicate this remaining 5% . I will not be lengthy I wanted to say Their is no beter family than the family of GOD.!!! Love JEN
Today is Monday April 16th. I am starting to regain some of my balance and memory. I am
so blessed to have you all . Thank those of you that have helped Connie and Gary find thier way along. The children are splendid and I don't think they have missed a beat. Easter the children came to see me in the hospital and So many pictures have been taken while I have been recouping I am brought to tears at how bless we all have been. I woke up today and the pain and swelling was down significantly. I know Kevin have up dated the blog regarding the success of my surgery. He has been a champ. To all you men in his life that have stood beside him and
been there for him godbless you! We are praying for the next step. That God would do what he is going to do to irradicate this remaining 5% . I will not be lengthy I wanted to say Their is no beter family than the family of GOD.!!! Love JEN
Monday, April 9, 2007
Good evening my brothers and sisters,
I am going to be brief tonight, only because my sleep depravation topped off with my eagerness to lay in the bed beside my bride will overtake me and my ability to hang with the keyboard.
SHE is Home!!! Praise HIM, and thank you from the depths of thankfulness. Boy, that is a deep thank you.... Yes, its silly time with Kev. Anyway, it is so good to be home and together, one more thing that seemingly appears to be taken for granted. My prayer tonight is that Jenny will rest with sweet sleep and that the fluid will quickly begin to diminish; it is uncomfortable to her tummy and her legs and knees are very swolen. Please join with me in that request. I am so thankful to God for all my friends and family that he has blessed Jenny, the kids and I; I am most definately the most blessed man in Loxley. Yes, once again another opportunity to be me (goofy). Salutations for the night my beloved, and know that I love you all and pray that The Jehovah God will enlarge your territory and do whatever it takes to grow closer to Him in these last days...
I am going to be brief tonight, only because my sleep depravation topped off with my eagerness to lay in the bed beside my bride will overtake me and my ability to hang with the keyboard.
SHE is Home!!! Praise HIM, and thank you from the depths of thankfulness. Boy, that is a deep thank you.... Yes, its silly time with Kev. Anyway, it is so good to be home and together, one more thing that seemingly appears to be taken for granted. My prayer tonight is that Jenny will rest with sweet sleep and that the fluid will quickly begin to diminish; it is uncomfortable to her tummy and her legs and knees are very swolen. Please join with me in that request. I am so thankful to God for all my friends and family that he has blessed Jenny, the kids and I; I am most definately the most blessed man in Loxley. Yes, once again another opportunity to be me (goofy). Salutations for the night my beloved, and know that I love you all and pray that The Jehovah God will enlarge your territory and do whatever it takes to grow closer to Him in these last days...
Thursday, April 5, 2007
Greetings everyone, I am sorry that the update comes so late, we had technical difficulties with our blog site. Today is April 5th, and we are rejoicing in the goodness of God. Whether we experience His goodness or not, should not determine our rejoicing in Him, although this journey has been long and the enduring teaching us many things about our Savior, we are agreeing with the text that says, "everything that is good and perfect, comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning." You our brothers and sisters in the faith have been so untiringly faithful to pray without ceasing, and that my friends swings the pendulum, that is a love language unmatched and we are blessed for your faithfulness.
Jennifer's surgery was a 95% success in removal of all the masses that Doctor Thompson, Dr. Finnan, and assistants were after. I have to tell you that before the anesthesiologist put her to sleep, she grabbed his hand and the scrub nurse hand, and lifted them to our Lord, the woman is always considering others. The surgery took approximately six hours.
The location of tumors that were removed were all around the liver, bladder, and stomach. There was a large mass pushing against the spleen, and a large mass in between the kidney and ureter. The peritoneum which is the lining of the stomach that surrounds all the organs, was removed from the rear of the stomach all the way forward to the pelvis area. This was a big deal because she will have to rebuild a new peritoneum and will be very sore for a long time.
I do believe that they will put Jennifer in a room today, she is recovering very fast, in which is another praise. I do know that she did not sleep last night, so pray that she will find rest today. The medical oncologist Dr. Beeker says that "He wants to think out of the box, and begin her on an oral medication when she gets to that stage". He believes that because we (God) has eradicated so much bulk of cancer that this will help with the remainder...
I want to finish out by saying that, "words are non-existent, as a means to express my gratitude for your kinship, so it's my goal to greet you with Holy kisses and hugs. So get ready, and pucker up.... We Love You all.
One last update, Thank you all involved in serving my children through this, they are doing great, and our prayer was that they would get to see the hand of God through this, and they most certainly have. Thank you for making meals and keeping us energized, what a blessing you have been at the end of a very tiring day...
Praise God for the Family of God, I do not know how some endure without the outstretched arms of the Father and His children... Your eternal Servant
Kevin.
Jennifer's surgery was a 95% success in removal of all the masses that Doctor Thompson, Dr. Finnan, and assistants were after. I have to tell you that before the anesthesiologist put her to sleep, she grabbed his hand and the scrub nurse hand, and lifted them to our Lord, the woman is always considering others. The surgery took approximately six hours.
The location of tumors that were removed were all around the liver, bladder, and stomach. There was a large mass pushing against the spleen, and a large mass in between the kidney and ureter. The peritoneum which is the lining of the stomach that surrounds all the organs, was removed from the rear of the stomach all the way forward to the pelvis area. This was a big deal because she will have to rebuild a new peritoneum and will be very sore for a long time.
I do believe that they will put Jennifer in a room today, she is recovering very fast, in which is another praise. I do know that she did not sleep last night, so pray that she will find rest today. The medical oncologist Dr. Beeker says that "He wants to think out of the box, and begin her on an oral medication when she gets to that stage". He believes that because we (God) has eradicated so much bulk of cancer that this will help with the remainder...
I want to finish out by saying that, "words are non-existent, as a means to express my gratitude for your kinship, so it's my goal to greet you with Holy kisses and hugs. So get ready, and pucker up.... We Love You all.
One last update, Thank you all involved in serving my children through this, they are doing great, and our prayer was that they would get to see the hand of God through this, and they most certainly have. Thank you for making meals and keeping us energized, what a blessing you have been at the end of a very tiring day...
Praise God for the Family of God, I do not know how some endure without the outstretched arms of the Father and His children... Your eternal Servant
Kevin.
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Good Morning,
We are so pleased the blog has helped. Thank you all for you words of encouragement.
I wanted to correct something. I was diagnosed in 2004 not 2005. Sorry about the mix up.
You all will be interested to know that Dr. Thomspon is an believer and Casey Frawley one of his E.R. nurses is a believer too . I have spoken with Casey and she will be in surgery that day and praying as she works. As if that wasn't already a huge blessing. Brad Garret will be my CNA" Nurse Anesthatist" which I hear is his gifted calling and he is a solid beliver and has changed his schedule to be in surgery that day. Brads sweet wife is a teacher at Bay SHore were my children go to school. Just another tesimony of the ministry of BayShore Christian School. Truly our cup runneth over. Haveing a solid encampment of prayer in the O.R. is a love letter from Our Heavenly Father . He takes care of all the details!
Last night I was awakened in the middle of the night. That happens often. Sometimes I drift off to sleep ,sometimes I have to get up and get the bugs out of my head. Anyway. I woke up and immediately began to fear all I had to walk through the next few weeks. I began to frett over
Merideth and Jacob, my husbands tremendouse job ahead of him. I had that sinking feeling you know the one that only the enemy can bring!!!! Early in this battle I would let him hang around and choke out every bit of hope I had untill I got enough and would begin to battle back.
However, I have come to a place that I just do not engage the evil ones at all. I don't argue with them , I don't yell at them, I do not let them take me down to that dark place they enjoy . I simply say" Go!" As they ( SATANs demons) bombards me with thoughts I say" STOP" "That is not my control. God has that in his hands" I truly release it and mean it is in his hands. I might have to say it a few time so they know I am not playing. Then I begin to speak GOds words aloud. Well, last night was one of those nights. My sweet husbands been doing alot of battleing in his mind so we have been really praying in that area the last two weeks,but last night The enemy started on me. I new he was bothering me when I woke in a fearful state. I was sleeping so good and it made me mad he woke me just to steal my restful sleep and try to arrest my hope. The battle was quick and over and My heavenly Father who is greater than he that is in this old world gave me back my sleep! I rested the rest of the night like a baby. I rejoiced greatly this morning with joy in my heart that we serve The GOD ! I hope this is encouragement to you brothers and sisters in Christ when the enemy comes against you too! AND HE WILL. LOVE JEN
We are so pleased the blog has helped. Thank you all for you words of encouragement.
I wanted to correct something. I was diagnosed in 2004 not 2005. Sorry about the mix up.
You all will be interested to know that Dr. Thomspon is an believer and Casey Frawley one of his E.R. nurses is a believer too . I have spoken with Casey and she will be in surgery that day and praying as she works. As if that wasn't already a huge blessing. Brad Garret will be my CNA" Nurse Anesthatist" which I hear is his gifted calling and he is a solid beliver and has changed his schedule to be in surgery that day. Brads sweet wife is a teacher at Bay SHore were my children go to school. Just another tesimony of the ministry of BayShore Christian School. Truly our cup runneth over. Haveing a solid encampment of prayer in the O.R. is a love letter from Our Heavenly Father . He takes care of all the details!
Last night I was awakened in the middle of the night. That happens often. Sometimes I drift off to sleep ,sometimes I have to get up and get the bugs out of my head. Anyway. I woke up and immediately began to fear all I had to walk through the next few weeks. I began to frett over
Merideth and Jacob, my husbands tremendouse job ahead of him. I had that sinking feeling you know the one that only the enemy can bring!!!! Early in this battle I would let him hang around and choke out every bit of hope I had untill I got enough and would begin to battle back.
However, I have come to a place that I just do not engage the evil ones at all. I don't argue with them , I don't yell at them, I do not let them take me down to that dark place they enjoy . I simply say" Go!" As they ( SATANs demons) bombards me with thoughts I say" STOP" "That is not my control. God has that in his hands" I truly release it and mean it is in his hands. I might have to say it a few time so they know I am not playing. Then I begin to speak GOds words aloud. Well, last night was one of those nights. My sweet husbands been doing alot of battleing in his mind so we have been really praying in that area the last two weeks,but last night The enemy started on me. I new he was bothering me when I woke in a fearful state. I was sleeping so good and it made me mad he woke me just to steal my restful sleep and try to arrest my hope. The battle was quick and over and My heavenly Father who is greater than he that is in this old world gave me back my sleep! I rested the rest of the night like a baby. I rejoiced greatly this morning with joy in my heart that we serve The GOD ! I hope this is encouragement to you brothers and sisters in Christ when the enemy comes against you too! AND HE WILL. LOVE JEN
Monday, March 19, 2007
Whats Up with the Busbys
In an effort to keep everyone informed and on the same page we finally set up this blog we hope it helps. Yes, I know it's a long time over due!
First let us say Thank You to all of you that have walked this journey with us. Some from the beginning and some just recently. Nevertheless, prayers ,help with the children,meals,Dr.s appt.'s ,chemo appt.'s ,financial, and encouragements are just a few of the ways you all have touched our lives.
We have never done a blog before so if for some reason we leave out some info please feel free to ask us in the comment section. We welcome the questions and will do our best to answer them.
So many have asked just what is it Jennifer has. The name of the cancer is Carcino-sarcoma.
We are not quite cetain where it originated but we think it originated in the ovaries due to the pathology that showed immature ovarian cells in the tumors. Because of the nature of the tumor it is very hard to diagnose untill it is already significant in size. I was diagnosed Jan 2005, but was ill a good year before anyone could tell me what was going on. Fatigue was a huge red flag.
I had gone to Dr after Dr, had tests and because I did not ask for the right tests I went on frustrated with the entire process. I was told I had everything from irritable bowl to viral pancreatitus. I had normal paps and in the early stages the Ct scans and ultra sounds showed nothing. So it was like we were in a battle with an invisible enemy. Long storey short by the time I was diagnosed I was in full blown fourth stage malignancy. The prognosis was grave.
I remember leaving the Dr. and Kevin grabbing my hand and saying "Honey, we can't give the enemy and inch here." So we started to fight. We did a wholistic route at first because we felt I needed to go for quality of life, since my quantity of life was in question. For three months I
began to gain strenth and my body got stronger in some ways but the cancer was growing as well. So After three months we started carbo and taxol chemo. I did this for several months and then had a major debulking surgery. Debulking is just what it sounds like. The Dr. goes in and extrcats as much cancer tumors as possible.
I have Amazing Dr.s .My Med Onc. is TAd Beeker. For those that don't know the Med Onc is the Dr that oversees the chemo and essentially drives the bus. My Surgical Onc. is Lee Thompson. He is the one that does any surgery I need from a port to a major overhaul. Both of these Dr.s are gifted men at what they do and I can say onekind of becomes like family after a while or at least good friends .
Anyway, I took more chemo and it wasn't strong enough. Some hard decisions needed to be made . I was needing break if I was going to fight some more. So I took the summer and enjoyed the kids and family. Kevin and I enjoyed for the first time in two years some normalsy for about three months untill it was evident I needed to do something. So I went back on some really heavy duty chemo for months and under went another debulking. This time I had three surgeons. Dr Finnan a GYN ONC. , Dr Daniels a very talented thoracic Onc. , and Dr. Thompson . They all did their part and did what they could. I recouped and started more chemo. My body would not do the heavy chemo anymore some we tried something to at least keep the fluid down. Which is where we find ourelves today.
The swelling in my abdomen is because the tumors are active and making fluid to cushion the tumors. The body is amazing how it works to survive. God has truly made an amazing instrument in the design of the body. So Dr Thomspon is going to go in on April 2nd and
do another debulk. Typically the type of cancer I have is not one that is operable, but as Dr. Thompson said " For some reason your body responds to this type of treatment." So you know
what I say .... In the words of Tyler perry "HALILUYER!!" We serve an awsome GOD!
We are so blessed to have options, and you know what? Even if we didn't have options we are blessed. The surgery is at 8 am at Mobile infirmary. Our friends Connie and Gary are coming in to take care of the kids for those weeks I am layed up. Our goal is to keep things as normal as possible. Standard stay in the hospital is two weeks , but I always ask the Lord to heal me up quick so I can get home soon and he does. Our childrens school Bay Shore Christian has been an amazing light house for the children. They have also ministered to our family through meals and prayers. They are preparing meals through April 12th. My sister Dot , dad, and Aunt will also be in for the surgery. Specific prayer needs relating to the surgery are : No scar tissue to have to contend with, removal of the tumor blocking the uriter, removal of tumor pressing on blood vessels of the spleen and spleen removal, removal of all tumors around or on the liver, removel of tumors around pancrease with no damage at all to the pancrease , also good resection of intestines if he hs to get into the intestines for any reason. Now let me be clear and say. A Ct can only tell so much, so he could get in there and say there is nothing he can do that is always a possibility. However as bad as all this sounds we have been here several times before and although I have not walked in complete healing I have walked in a super natural sustaining!
God is not taken back by any of this. If I may be frank for a moment . We need all of you to pray regarding these things, and be careful to not to get caught up in the negative stuff and gossip. Our children need to see the peace in the storm. My sweet husband needs to be encouraged not bombarded with a million what if's . We have to face those enough with in our selves. Please know our hearts and requests are as much from our heart of love to you as your desire to pray is for us! We deeply appreciate and thank you all for your inquiries, offers and prayers. We are so honored and favored to be in the family of God.
First let us say Thank You to all of you that have walked this journey with us. Some from the beginning and some just recently. Nevertheless, prayers ,help with the children,meals,Dr.s appt.'s ,chemo appt.'s ,financial, and encouragements are just a few of the ways you all have touched our lives.
We have never done a blog before so if for some reason we leave out some info please feel free to ask us in the comment section. We welcome the questions and will do our best to answer them.
So many have asked just what is it Jennifer has. The name of the cancer is Carcino-sarcoma.
We are not quite cetain where it originated but we think it originated in the ovaries due to the pathology that showed immature ovarian cells in the tumors. Because of the nature of the tumor it is very hard to diagnose untill it is already significant in size. I was diagnosed Jan 2005, but was ill a good year before anyone could tell me what was going on. Fatigue was a huge red flag.
I had gone to Dr after Dr, had tests and because I did not ask for the right tests I went on frustrated with the entire process. I was told I had everything from irritable bowl to viral pancreatitus. I had normal paps and in the early stages the Ct scans and ultra sounds showed nothing. So it was like we were in a battle with an invisible enemy. Long storey short by the time I was diagnosed I was in full blown fourth stage malignancy. The prognosis was grave.
I remember leaving the Dr. and Kevin grabbing my hand and saying "Honey, we can't give the enemy and inch here." So we started to fight. We did a wholistic route at first because we felt I needed to go for quality of life, since my quantity of life was in question. For three months I
began to gain strenth and my body got stronger in some ways but the cancer was growing as well. So After three months we started carbo and taxol chemo. I did this for several months and then had a major debulking surgery. Debulking is just what it sounds like. The Dr. goes in and extrcats as much cancer tumors as possible.
I have Amazing Dr.s .My Med Onc. is TAd Beeker. For those that don't know the Med Onc is the Dr that oversees the chemo and essentially drives the bus. My Surgical Onc. is Lee Thompson. He is the one that does any surgery I need from a port to a major overhaul. Both of these Dr.s are gifted men at what they do and I can say onekind of becomes like family after a while or at least good friends .
Anyway, I took more chemo and it wasn't strong enough. Some hard decisions needed to be made . I was needing break if I was going to fight some more. So I took the summer and enjoyed the kids and family. Kevin and I enjoyed for the first time in two years some normalsy for about three months untill it was evident I needed to do something. So I went back on some really heavy duty chemo for months and under went another debulking. This time I had three surgeons. Dr Finnan a GYN ONC. , Dr Daniels a very talented thoracic Onc. , and Dr. Thompson . They all did their part and did what they could. I recouped and started more chemo. My body would not do the heavy chemo anymore some we tried something to at least keep the fluid down. Which is where we find ourelves today.
The swelling in my abdomen is because the tumors are active and making fluid to cushion the tumors. The body is amazing how it works to survive. God has truly made an amazing instrument in the design of the body. So Dr Thomspon is going to go in on April 2nd and
do another debulk. Typically the type of cancer I have is not one that is operable, but as Dr. Thompson said " For some reason your body responds to this type of treatment." So you know
what I say .... In the words of Tyler perry "HALILUYER!!" We serve an awsome GOD!
We are so blessed to have options, and you know what? Even if we didn't have options we are blessed. The surgery is at 8 am at Mobile infirmary. Our friends Connie and Gary are coming in to take care of the kids for those weeks I am layed up. Our goal is to keep things as normal as possible. Standard stay in the hospital is two weeks , but I always ask the Lord to heal me up quick so I can get home soon and he does. Our childrens school Bay Shore Christian has been an amazing light house for the children. They have also ministered to our family through meals and prayers. They are preparing meals through April 12th. My sister Dot , dad, and Aunt will also be in for the surgery. Specific prayer needs relating to the surgery are : No scar tissue to have to contend with, removal of the tumor blocking the uriter, removal of tumor pressing on blood vessels of the spleen and spleen removal, removal of all tumors around or on the liver, removel of tumors around pancrease with no damage at all to the pancrease , also good resection of intestines if he hs to get into the intestines for any reason. Now let me be clear and say. A Ct can only tell so much, so he could get in there and say there is nothing he can do that is always a possibility. However as bad as all this sounds we have been here several times before and although I have not walked in complete healing I have walked in a super natural sustaining!
God is not taken back by any of this. If I may be frank for a moment . We need all of you to pray regarding these things, and be careful to not to get caught up in the negative stuff and gossip. Our children need to see the peace in the storm. My sweet husband needs to be encouraged not bombarded with a million what if's . We have to face those enough with in our selves. Please know our hearts and requests are as much from our heart of love to you as your desire to pray is for us! We deeply appreciate and thank you all for your inquiries, offers and prayers. We are so honored and favored to be in the family of God.
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